Or, more precisely, pay for somebody else to pamper him. Indulge him in a day of massage, Jacuzzis and lying around by a pool. Choose from our favourite spa destinations, including one-off treatments, spa days and weekend breaks, with something for every budget. And of course, he’ ll need someone to go with him …

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Turn the tables on your man and present him with the scent of a ‘rose’ – the mysterious hybrid Duet Rose with its unique petals which are light on one side, dark on the other. He can spend the night Googling it while you relax in the blissful romantic scent that the luxury Diptyque brand do so very well.

Diptyque limited edition Rose Duet candle, £42
www.diptyqueparis.co.uk

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Nothing says 'I love you' like a beautiful bunch of flowers and what better way to present them than in this chic heart-shaped vase?

Fulfillment Vase, £20.50
www.Fab.com

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Treat yourself or a loved one to this pre-date pampering treat. The set contains a mini rose body oil and moisturiser, hand cream, a lavender bath miniature and a lip care stick.

Take Time, £21.45
Dr.Hauschka

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Wrap up warm and enjoy a romantic picnic for two with this grey-washed willow picnic hamper - with bottle holders for the bubbly!

Take Time, £34.99
from the Allaboutyou online shop

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Spell it out with these Victorian-letter design pillowcases, printed in a choice of five colours (red, black, pink, blue and beige) on creamy-white cotton poplin

Love pillowcases, £29 per pair
from Lush Designs

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A present for you, a present for him. Get the perfect pout with EVE LOM's Kiss Mix lip balm. A cooling and moisturising lip treatment that keeps lips soft, seductive and perfectly kissable.

EVE LOM Kiss Mix, £16
EVE LOM

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Get creative in the kitchen and make a fun, heartfelt bake for your beloved with this gorgeous cake mould.

Heart shape baking mould, £10
Hedgehog

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Enjoy the romance of Italy with a three-night escape to a suite in a fabulous hotel. The deal includes a gourmet tasting-menu dinner, a half-day local cooking class, a horse-and-carriage tour and, of course, a spa treatment. Fabulous!

Three nights at Corte Altavilla, Bari, Southern Italy, from £499 per person; includes return flights from London Gatwick. 20% off brochure price, from www.secretescapes.com; other Valentine break offers also available.

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A sweet, sweet message to lay beneath his head on February 14th!

Je t'aime Pillowcase, £6.99, www.hm.com
 

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Here’s a great gift idea you both can share. Spend Valentine’s Day on the glamorous British Pullman or Northern Belle train, travelling from a choice of London, Leeds, York, Manchester and Chester, and enjoy fine food, Champagne, wine and first class service in sumptuous surroundings. The package also includes a bouquet of flowers and luxury chocolates.

Romance on the Rails package aboard the British Pullman and Northern Belle, from £250 per person
www.orient-express.com

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